Why Women Hate Men

There are perchance a few women reading this article and thinking;

"I don't hate men."

Well by the time you finish reading this you're gonna hate at least one.

As a bartender I've seen my share of drunken women. Whether they have a beer or a long island in front of them the conversation usually turns to men.

"Men are such @!$%#s!" says one.
"Aren't they?!" says another.

The man-hating moves through the crowd like a ripple, the other female patrons look over and nod knowingly, as if this simple statement is the wisdom of the ages. I look at the clock and wish closing time would magically arrive, or conveniently excuse myself to go outside for a cigarette. Seeking refuge in my nicotine addiction.

I was going to call this article 'Why Women Hate Me' only thing is the majority of women I know don't, yet. Most ladies like me enough to tell me so, yet not enough to pursue me. Which means I'm not enough of an @!$%#. I'm just sitting on the fence.

The reason women hate men and think all men are @!$%#s is because women are attracted to @!$%#s. Why? Because confidence is sexy, and @!$%#s tend to be overly confident that's often the trait that leads to them being @!$%#s in the first place. Even false confidence attracts women.

So after a couple of relationships with a couple different @!$%#s women think all men are @!$%#s.

"There just aren't any nice guys." The women say.

Let's face it ladies, you're not really looking for a nice guy. If women were looking for a nice guy then the hundreds of them that have said this in my presence would be throwing themselves at me. I'm a nice guy, women tell me so all the time. What you meant to say was;

"There just aren't any cute nice guys."

What you should have said was;

"They're aren't any nice guys I'm attracted to."

The world is full of nice guys ladies, he's the one who listens to you when you tell him there aren't any nice guys in the world.

Women love to harp on the male species saying that men are only interested in women for the way they look. Well it cuts both ways. First impressions are important and the first impression is always physical. No one can look across the room at someone and tell how big that persons brain is or measure the depth of their personality at a glance. Women appreciate eye candy just as much as men do.

Many women I've met on the job have told me flat out that they know in about fifteen seconds of seeing a guy whether or not they would ever have sex with him.

Now there are cute, nice guys in the world but they are few and far between. The reason has to do with ego. People who are attractive and know they are attractive are often arrogant and lacking of empathy. Truth is when you are attractive people treat you better, they are nicer, they are more accommodating and it makes life easier. It also inflates egos.

Women hate men because they are attracted to the type of men they should avoid.